Make sure you understand the various terminology
We often see people asking what is the difference
between a one night stand and a fuck buddy or a no strings sex date and a friend
with benefits. The truth in reality is there is no difference. An f-buddy and a
sex date are basically the same thing - you meet someone for sex without the
stigma of being a boyfriend and girlfriend. There are dedicated sites out there
for married sex dates and unfaithful adults however, if you are married why
limit yourself to only finding a member of the opposite sex who is in the same
The only two terms you need to really be aware of are
swingers and cuckold dates. Most of us know what swingers are and we have
included a brief explanation below for those who are unsure but do you know what
a cuckold date is? Cuckold is an old English term to describe an adulterous
wife. In modern English it refers to a fetish term relating to a guy who gains
sexual satisfaction from watching his wife having sex with another man referred
to as the BULL.
The female or the wife is often referred to as the HOTWIFE,
she takes on a dominant role with her husband being the submissive, she will
tease and deny him access to her before having sex with another man (the Bull)
usually in front of her submissive husband but not always. Occasionally the
hotwife may seek sex away from her husband while he is left at home tied up and
wondering when she will return. Depending on the situation the husband may be
allowed to relieve himself while watching his wife getting nailed but he never
gets involved it does not turn into a threesome.
Below are a few very commonly used terms in members profiles.
It isn't set in stone what they actually mean, it might be that the member is
unsure what they mean themselves so always use your own judgment in determining
what is on offer.
Fuck buddy - Someone you have got to know and have become
friends with and who is there for you when you need sex. Someone who will not
get jealous of you enjoying sex with others. A person you can get in touch with
and say do you fancy a shag tonight.
Fuck buddies - If someone states that they are seeking a
fuck buddy and another person states the plural fuck buddies it doesn't mean
that they are going to remain faithful to just the one person.
Fuck date - exactly the same as above.
No strings attached - NSA dating is exactly the same as a
fuck buddy, sex without any commitments or promises to one another.
Swingers - You automatically think parties and orgies but it
is not always the case. Couples who enjoy wife swapping, couples seeking a 3rd
person to join in and couples who lead an open lifestyle knowing that their
partner has sex with other people all slot into this category.
Cuckold - A woman who gets enjoyment out of having sex with
another man with her husbands knowledge, usually in front of him (the husband)
making him feel inadequate. The husband gets just as much pleasure (well not
quite) watching another man banging his wife. Sometimes when the lover or BULL
has left the husband will be offered sloppy seconds or the chance to 'clean' up
Discreet sex date - Usually means that the person requesting
this has a partner who doesn't know it might be that they are single and wish
for an assurance that your meeting will be kept confidential maybe due to their
job or status in society.
MBM or MBW - Married black man or married black woman.
B/W or M/R - Between black and white or mixed race.
MWM or MWF - Married white man or married white female.
MM or MW - Married man or married woman.
FSM or MSF - Female seeking male or male seeking female.
Vas-Safe - Vasectomy safe.
D and D Free - Drug and disease free.
BBW - Big beautiful woman.
NS - Non smoker.
MC - Married couple.
WLTM - Would like to meet.
Avoid using the term "One night stand". This is the term used
for when you pick someone up in a club or bar, usually with someone you regret
sleeping with the following day when the alcohol has worn off and usually with
someone you never want to see again.
Members Cuckold Sex Pictures
Here we see a hotwife getting fucked from behind while
her husband takes the pictures.
You don't need an explantion of what this BULL is
getting out of this sex date and a hotwife.
Hotwife receiving oral sex while her husband watches.
Wife gets fucked while husband records the action.